the southern u.s? how can i achieve this with the difficult circumstances im in in life? im 30 years old had a traumatic life and psychological problems since 15.......i now have borderline personality disorder and waiting for psychotherapy....ive never worked because of my condition and have no work experience or qualifications..... iam french with native heritage also. ive lived in britain since two....but my number 1 ambition is to leave the uk, emigrate and build a new life...find a loving partner. i dont want to stay in britain, but i realise i have to work on my mental/psychological problems first, before i can leave... i really would love to eventually live in a ranch house, in the country in rural southern u.s with a loving partner as my ultimate dream eventually...completley build a new life, wipe slate clean.... how can i achieve this? iam serious. if for some reason i couldnt get in the us because its to difficult, where could i emigrate to? prefablly a hot climate i live in a one bedroom apartment on welfare feeling very lonely, worrying about these gols and ambitions and how im gonna achieve them..as i wait for therapy....ive never had a girlfriend or made any friends in life......this particular goal.....im desperate to achieve...i wont accept that its just a dream and to let it go......i do not..i repeat, do not want to stay in britain
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1 :
take a job there
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Just 2 words : Perseverance and action :) when you feel like giving up and discouraged, remember Thomas Edison's light bulb.
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those are wonderful things that you have planned for yourself and the best way to achieve those is to start with yourself. forget those traumatic experiences for they're in the past. instead, dwell on the present and the future. work hard on those goals and live your life you see fit. but the most important thing is be "happy". you can do it. believe in yourself.
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ranches in the southern states are VERY expensive..as is healthcare since it's not free..so it would force you to get a job, very soon if you want to save up. Right now the US is difficult to get into..but maybe not so much if you are from the UK...why not stay in Europe? switzerland seems beautiful and friendly. and being bilingual would be a great benefit for you for getting a job. If you move to Canada (victoria, BC is beautiful and warm basically all year) getting a job in several places may be easy since french is widely spoken here.
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What is wrong with a job in a factory with a loving partner. Life is what you make it and where. Dreams sometimes have to be changed, it is never pretty but what a trip!!!
6 :
Try season job in Morocco or Portugal next summer for start.
